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On Wednesday the 16th of January a huge light went out in the world with the passing of our dear friend, Denis Callinan. This site is dedicated to keeping the memory of our "Surfing Saint" burning bright by honouring the generosity of his spirit and continuing the charity work with which he was so passionately engaged. Please show your respect and support by posting a message for Denis below. If you have any problems or errors on the site please email us at help@deniscallinan.com.
hi Denis miss you xxx
Denis was a couple of years ahead of me at Miami High and I didnt really know him at school.Iran into him in about 1976-77 when I was an articled clerk. I was absolutely in awe of his energy and he looked pretty spiffy in his three piece pinstriped suit. I was just surfing the net today (the only surfing I've ever done except body surfing) for old acquaintances and although I hardly knew him I am feeling just devastated that he is gone. He obviously gave so much but still had so much to give. Andrea, reading your posts, my heart just goes out to you and i hope you are healing and moving on.
Missing you Uncle Denis. Forever in my heart. Xoxox
Have been thinking about you alot lately and what a good role model you were to everyone over the many years xoxoxoxoxo
Hi Denis SAND is so very alive and well. I've popped up to the the Goldy for a visit and am left marveling at the strength, unity and spirit behind SAND in aid of Bots' recovery. Thank you for bringing all these great souls together. Thinking of you, love keri
Moving back to Brisbane and you're in my thoughts again Den..
Hi Denis, at work and just started thinking about you - Keep smiling...L
Hi Den Caught up with cousin Chrissie the other day and still can't believe you are no longer here. God bless you up there with everyone.
Hi Denis, your spirit lives on in so many ways. The SAND legacy that you left for us is as strong as ever, and we feel your presence at all our gatherings. Miis you heaps Bots
Hi Denis, time is passing so quickly. I think of you often good friend, I miss you.
Hi Uncle Denis!!!!!! I am just writing to say that I miss you so much and love you more than words can describe and still cannot believe it was so long ago when you were taken from us!!!!!!! Also just because this is the first time that I have written on here I don't want you to think that I have forgotten about you because I Haven't!!!!!!!!!! I am doing really well, I am becoming an actor and working really hard towards that!!!!! And I know that you would be truly supportive of my chosen career!!!!!!!! I love you so much and I hope that you are watching over me and helping guide me!!!!!! Love you forever and always!!! Rhen xoxoxoxoxo
Keep smilin' Denis
tomorrow...it's dawn patrol at Mokuleia with DP...you can meet our two boys...just don't run them over...Aloha Denis
hey denis missing u , we all miss u rest easy bud
Hi gorgeous, miss you so much..thanks for the messages xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Den you are so often in my thoughts. Next Christmas I am hoping the whole family will try to get together for the big Chrissie reunion we should have before you were gone... blessings
first trip to hawaii, met denis on sunset beach......a big siren went off as a touched the water....... saw a guy waxing his board and asked what the siren was for....."its a nuclear attack warning mate you'd better run"..........couldnt believe we both surfed burleigh....He found me n my girl a place to stay that night and we stayed in touch for the next 20 years........evertime i was in an international airport i would run into him.........I still look for him.... hope your catching some big ones up there ..........from paul julee jordan ellee-jay and holly malane...................
Oh my crackers!! people have had your name tattooed onto their skin den.. you wouldn't believe it would ya. Flew over and saw the whole family in November. How lovely and it did bring back many memories. Could almost smell you high up on the hill. love you and miss you lotsa xoxo
hi denis roughly three years ago we were searching for waves to celebrate your birthday, and i tell you what they were about as rough this year as they were then! obviously it doesn't matter cos i learnt from you that it doesn't need to be pumping to have an excellent time, and the best surfer out there is having the most fun. i often recall your inspiring ways and words. bless you mate, wish you were here. keri
I agree Den with Heidi you were certainly with us and we were doing something you enjoyed. great to see everyone as well - you are missed by so many. wish you were here x
hey you .. we celebrated you once again on a lovely beach walk on sunday .. really felt you there amongst us ... it was just lovely and peaceful and a great thing to do ... just how you would have wished ... had a hug with your beautiful Andrea .. all is well Den .. miss you deeply bro x
Miss u mate rest easy
Den.... missing you need to talk...maybe in my dreams love you...very much...xoxo
good waves the last few days thinking of you emu be happy.
there you were again .. it was pumping ♥
Denis ohhhhh how we miss you! our beautiful knight carry us away...with you!!!! xoxoxox
miss you, our brother in arms. the seed you (and ya dad) planted still grows within us all. surfrider foundation we dedciate to your amazing and powerful inspiration den.
Denis you were and still are one of the most charismatic and caring teachers I have ever learned from. Once during class after submitting a project to you that I had not particularly cared to do, you pulled me into the corridor and told me, "I know you can do better than this mate, and I know the potential you have." I will never forget those words and they linger as a constant reminder to strive to do better. I will forever remember you as a positive force in my life that elevated me as a student as well as an individual. Kindest Regards, Nicholas Iverson Bond University Class of 2006
Hey DC..Been thinking of you lots..especially when I have my lovely walks along Bilinga Beach..always looking for a shell for you..miss you x
Hey Denis, Have been thinking of you a lot lately, full moons, new moons.....looking out at night at the water around Nth Head with the moonlight on it.....just wanted to say hi.....Louise
just missing you that's all ... big thoughts of you lately .. but then feel you around and feel calm and you're saying 'it's all good H' .. had a good laugh over the weekend about some funny times DC .. shine on friend x
just been at Heidis house talkin bout you....@ the billabong shop...so awkward...but....sooooo...ok!!!..you were doin the shopping for all your people....so cool...as always
heyy uncle denn, i miss you soo much and will never forget about you . you mean the world to me. school is so good at the momentt i wish you were stll here u could have seen me im in high school now its devostating your gonee, and you will never be forgotten you forever&& allways in my heart loveyouuu♥ xx shelbyy
Hey Uncle Den, Just though i would pop on in to say still thinking of u and miss u!! And to let you know aswell how good uni is going.. Had another knee reconstruction but nearly back to funning for touch knew you always supported me whatever i did anyway even when i wasnt so good at school, you always laughed with me... But didnt want u to think i forgot about u... Love you x x x
Hey Denis - well we have now a "Denis Callinan Achievement Award". We donated some money and presented a Certificate to a young girl very worthy of your award - I think you would be proud - Miss you.
Happy Easter my friend....I know you are doing what you need to do....now as always! Thankyou for loving us xoxoxoxoxox
hi denis there's so much magic on the headland and it reminds me of you. fa, keri
We are still missing you mate!
hey denis - guess what biggest night last night at gctop 96 people - i know you would be excited at that. wish you were here to see all the changes. Lara Gold Coast Traffic Offenders Program
Hey Denis - party at my house on Very Good Friday. I expect to see you there (I see you and Marcus everywhere else!) and will have a couple of cold midstrengths ready for you. Sorry I missed the Golf Day. Keep up the good work up there ;) fa
Something made us look through our old photos today and there were some of Denis. Just seeing the photos reminded us of how beautiful a person he was. Never a nasty thought or word against anyone. Denis was always there to listen and to help in times of need. We still miss you and think that we see you out and about. If only that were true. Our thoughts are with your family. Love, Heather and Eddie
Just played in the charity golf day and had a great day , thanks to all that were involved and sure Denis would of been stoked with all the floral shirts.
Hi Den, I set my alarm so I could be the first one to write on your wall on the day that you died. I've kept in touch with Sharon and that gives me alot of peace and love. I'm having a break from Law at the moment and have a job lined up at Margaret River Law with David McCashney in the New Year. As soon as I go out for my first surf there, my first wave will be ALL for you. You'll always be in my memories and if you only knew how much you've had an effect on people. I'm sure you'd be proud and humbeled. I hope you are in a great place educating people on the precious things in life. What can I say...
Hey Denis , well its d day, too soon , not been easy another friend coming you way today, look after him. Followed your example today, your zest for life and all the good vibes/things you wished on everyone so it has been a kinda happy day, sad moments but an up day. yes, your still making a difference !! We miss you a bunch and will be havinmg a beer for both of you this arvo chow Mic deb Jord
Its not easier the longer time goes on .. it just seems too long that we haven't seen you or something. I hear you and see your smiling face often and it always gives me great peace. Going to your lovely Sheoak tomorrow, I know you'll be there in spirit and once again we'll celebrate all the love and life you stood for Denis. You are always alive in our hearts Den, but we just miss you so much everyday. Aloha always Mum, Wendy, Rab, Cindy, Heidi and Lou and all the kids and fellas x
DEN..Thinking about you today my beautiful friend....missing you soooooooo much.... it hurts alot! I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Denis, us here at Burleigh and i'm sure all around the world are thinking of you today and every day. Spreading flowers, peace and love...catching waves with you.
hey crew shit 12 months already hope all are well, denis you would love the vibe out the point these days on thu morn all the crew was out it was pumping we were all hooting each other and calling people into waves, it was cool, surf rage we dont get it at burleigh any more you know smiling and being happy in the water is so much better and it took denis's passing to teach me that thanks denis you really are a saint take it easy mate see ya one day, god bless.keep on surfing crew.
"What is a saint? A saint is someone who has achieved a remote human possibility. It is impossible to say what that possibility is. I think it has something to do with the energy of love. Contact with this energy results in the exercise of a kind of balance in the chaos of existence. A saint does not dissolve the chaos; if he did the world would have changed long ago. I do not think that a saint dissolves the chaos even for himself, for there is something arrogant and warlike in the notion of a man setting the universe in order. It is a kind of balance that is his glory. He rides the drifts like an escaped ski. His course is the caress of the hill. His track is a drawing of the snow in a moment of its particular arrangement with wind and rock. Something in him so loves the world that he gives himself to the laws of gravity and chance. Far from flying with the angels, he traces with the fidelity of a seismograph needle the state of the solid bloody landscape. His house is dangerous and finite, but he is at home in the world. He can love the shape of human beings, the fine and twisted shapes of the heart. It is good to have among us such men, such balancing monsters of love".- Leonard Cohen.
Hey Denis, The Hawaii trip was GREAT! The surf on the North Shore was the best in years. The boys were happy to have the experience. Maddy bought the sand from Burleigh and one quiet night on the beach at Gas Chambers, we gathered to remember you. Maddy, Kurt, Lou, Glen, Phil and me...it was very special. So now some of your beloved Burleigh sand is swirling around with your beloved North Shore sand...just being free. Love and Aloha
Your still getting around Denis..I have to look twice but I see you out of the corner of my eye as I sit on my morning rock,you were walking that same path,board under arm,beaming like the eternal grommett that you are.Both Pete and I see you frequently round the cove..and it overwhelms us like the sun rising in our hearts...I know your still with us all,and it looks like your busier than ever..All our love A and P xxxx
Dearest Den Life is not the same without you here, one year down the track. I know you are at peace, and if you had lived after such a heart attack, your journey would have been such a struggle. Your true depth of character and care of your fellow human beings has been revealed by the overwhelming reaction of so many to your death. Again, in death as in life, your spirit has generated a continuous fountain of loving support and expression of generosity by so many. It is that sense of your love of life, your determination and humility, that has inspired me and kept me going in my dark and very sad moments. Life at Wadeye over the last year, with the many traumas of life facing the indigenous people there, has seen death at the door of families on many occasions. The holes that are left are hard to bear for all, but I constantly have thought of the strength and courage you showed in facing difficult situations, which you encountered in life. You never tried to run away, but always followed through, whether it was in your personal life or your professional life. You were always kind and supportive of me, and a great supporter of Pat, Damian, Paul, Louisa, and Matt. We miss those lovely drop-in visits enveloped in the funny stories where we would say – “it could only happen to Den”! You were a truly loyal and loving brother to myself and Mark, a wonderful son to Joyce and Bill, and a great uncle. Joyce is doing well and been very stoical. She has moved recently into St Andrews Aged Care at West Burleigh, and is very well looked after there – she made the choice after slipping over a few more times! Pat and I are also closer now, having just moved back from the Territory to Queensland. I am very thankful to all those people in our family, friends and community, who have supported us over the last year, and those who have constructed and contributed to the website – the list is huge. Many people have given generously in different ways in honour of you. It was a terrible shock, when you passed so suddenly, and painfully hard to understand and accept, but at least in your 53 years your legacy has been amazing. Your heart was so big, that it just wore out much earlier, than it should have. At least, we had you with us for 53 years and are grateful for that… the fullness of your life is one to be truly celebrated. Many people are remembering you with special charity events over the next week, including Andrea (Saturday) and S.A.N.D. (Friday), again giving back to the community. The Traffic Offenders program and Lara are doing well, and Vanessa has not stopped working for you. Justin and Mal have been your constant supporters. Mrs B and family miss you very much; as does Barry; and Duncan even came to visit me at Wadeye. I never fail to look at the surf without thinking of you and feeling your spirit – I think you really were a surfing saint! You never realized the depth and breadth of your inspiration, and how much you had helped others. Missing you very much and loving you always – I know you will pop through that door again soon, and then start to leave after a chat, and then think of something else, and then have to dash ……! your sis, Anna xxxxooooxxxx
hey Denis, festive season has been a happy time lots of surf time just as u like it.our thoughts of you continue, positive, inspiring and appreciated. always uplifting !! cheers to you bud.
merry christmas and a happy new year to all denis im still a good boy no dramas in the water. heres a saying i read a long time ago. don't look at the colour of the skin but the heart that beats beneath the skin. bryce courtney power of one be good look after everyone and peace on earth. see ya dwayne.pray for waves.
Denis - you have been a great friend, as you know. From Samoa to all the time I crashed on your floor in Mermaid Beach, to all the people and places you introduced me to in your world - you were the consummate surfing ambassador that you always liked to think of yourself as. I learned a lot from you about how to live a good life. Thank you for the kindness. Your mate,
Merry Christmas Denis..we really missed your visit today..but we had a lovely tribute to you..miss you x
Merry Christmas Denis, You will be so very missed this Christmas. We are having a remembrance luau and fundraiser for the heart foundation at the Sheoak Shack Fingal Head on Saturday night 17th January. Mattie Barker is playing. All welcome, dress Hawaiian. We will never forget you. Your spirit lives on. aloha sweet angel
Hey denis - we had our gctop xmas party on friday night - we had a drink for you - you were missed terribly. what a year but some good news is that we won the 2008 CARRSQ-Qld Road Safety Award - what an absolute honour - I know you would be very proud. we certainly are - take care my friend. thinking of you always. Lara Hicking Gold Coast Traffic Offenders Program
what a great guy denis was,I am really thankful to have known him and to have been a small cog in the amazing story of the SAND SIPPERS...what a privilege it was to be told what to do by a man who knew how to do it,and by god,did he do it,wow,great stuff,I hope that he has some symbolic TREE/COVE(burleigh) named after him up there in Queensalnd,for his legacy should always live on,your mate,Dicko...always down the line buddy.
Phil and I (& kids) are heading back to our other favourite place "Hawaii" next week with Rocky, Lou and kids. We've been planning for months but this time it'll be special to visit YOUR special places. We're going to take some Burleigh sand and shells to scatter then we're going to have a beer! Can't wait to feel your spirit as you are so inspiring. with love and Aloha
Just remembering your birthday in 2001....Samoa!! You said, "it's the best day I've seen". It was definitely one of my favourite days and I loved the fact that we high 5'd after surfing for 6 hours. Full of memories with you as our travel guide in another one of your favourite place.
Happy Birthday Denis....thinking of you lots today...going to light a candle right now for YOU xxxx
Happy Birthday Den.....thinking about you always and loving you forever. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Happy Birthday Denis - wish you were here to celebrate with us - you are missed and loved by so many. GCTOP Crew x
Happy Birthday Denis. Imagine the universe is turning on epic barrels for you somewhere. Wish it was here. Miss you.
Happy Birthday Denis for today November 17. Big thoughts of you today and much Love and Peace coming your way. Always in our hearts. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hey Denno, Lou me and the kids are going to Hawaii soon, well we're mostly going on a hoiiday, but something happened today that made me realise that this is more than than just a family holiday. Fistly Louise rang Buzzy and Denis Pang & said we were coming over. They both openned their homes to us, it's like we're taking over from your traditional yearly sojourne, Denis Pang offering graciously to lend me you're stashs of boards that you have there. That's what did me up! I can't imagine surfing you're favourite craft at you're favourite surf spot in Hawaii. Boat ramps or something I think they call it! Rab knows and said he will point Kurt and me in the right diretion, All I know is that you turn Left at Haleiwa. Anyway I had a tear im my eye to think that I could actually take out one of you're boards at you're favoured break on the north shore and try and enjoy it as much as you did. Denno I will do the best I can & take the best drop for you and ride the the wave as though you were there with me! Look forward to surfing with you in Hawwaii this year. 2008. Your Brother forever Rocky
Denis was my best friend, he was my guidance, my saint and my mentor. I'll never forget the great times we had swimming and surfing but most of all I'll never forget what you taught me. I'll love you forever Den.
I know how stoked you would be with Obama being the President!and especially being from Hawaii and all ..you'd be skipping down the streets DC and doing your little emu moves .... x
Hey Denis, we are going to have a aloha golf day for you bro...on the 16th of January 2009. This day will be all about the aloha spirit you brought to our community.Den you had such an infectous personality that touched so many people from so all walks of life, its an honor to have shared it with you in the surf and working together on our SAND charity functions. miss you heaps brother!! Bots :)
Hey Denis...A couple of weekends ago Glen & I went to Nth Straddie for the weekend..I climbed up onto the rock at Main beach where you had that amazing happy photo taken of you when you were there with Andrea last Oct..It was the most beautiful perfect day & I couldn't help but shed a tear thinking of you..Miss you every day x
Hey Dc , been a tough week really needed your steady hand and words . you prob would have been up in these last few weeks missing you a bunch. Jord's up and says hi. Hes all grown up and off to fashion college happy and in tune. so mate taking yr lead surfn anything and lovin it.sweet thoughts miss u mic
I was so sad when I heard this news. I met both you and Mark in Puerto Escondido many years ago, and recall how you tried to save the life of a drowning victim. We later met up in Bali and then both you and Mark came to Santa Cruz. Denis, my husband at the time, then came to Oz and worked with you at the Sands Contest. I had always hoped we would all meet again, but I see now that will have to happen in another place, another time. I loved your happy, peaceful spirit, your amazing sense of humor, and the constant smile that always graced your face. I am so sad for your community and your family, and to Mark...we are always here for you! Take good care Denis, and I will catch you on the flipside. Rosie Young
Hey Denis.. Geez I miss you .. so many things ..you were such a great listener ..and i loved all your funny stories .. I miss our silly arguments ..the quick cuppas and I'm so missing that giant laugh that just shut down anything ..was having a dream and you were in it and then you were laughing but it was a crazy early morning bird and it woke me up ... and you weren't there, not that you would have been you know, in the bed with me.. it's ok I know you are doing great and doing some almighty special stuff ..and visions of your smile keep me uplifted .. I love ya mate and and am so grateful for what was now a pretty short time ..Aloha lives on because of you. Heidi x o = :)
uncle denis was the best uncle you could ask for. He was really funny and did some stupid stuff R.I.P uncle den xoxoxo
Dwayne, Denis would be proud of you, I am. H
was surfing this morning in some great crystal caverns it was fun and it made me think about us, us surfers we are all like denis we love surfing so here is a poem about us especially denis, hope its not too long[Ode To A Waterperson[ All my life I have lived for the ocean Crystal blue water in pure fluid motion To play in the sea with the dolphins and fish Since I was young has been my wish People who don’t surf don’t understand Being in the water beats the shit out of being on land I have always wished to breathe under water Away from the land, the carnage, the slaughter Don’t people know all life comes from the sea Just look at surfers like you and me We are the chosen race Surfing along on a screaming blue face I will surf till I die, till my last breathe of air Make sure my last wave I will surf with flair So if I’m to die on land or at sea In the ocean I choose the rest for me With money or without I don’t really care Just to surf waves, have fun, with friend’s I’ll share To be alone on the ocean is such a great feeling To surf, to live, to love the ocean it’s appealing What life means to me!……… By Djharris. ©Djharris. 18/10/00.
hope all are well miss you emu can't wait to go surfing with you again up there still being nice in the water lifes too short go surfing have fun see ya.
we miss you denis. forever an inspiration to me mate. heres to living the dream.
Hey Denis missing you mate. It was a glorius sunny day today, just a great day in the water. It made me think about you and how much you would of enjoyed it. I always looked forward to your general stoke and enthuisasm every time I would bump into you. Sadly missed Denis. Can't wait to have a beer and a wave with you upstairs.
I miss you Denis I miss your generous heart I miss your wacky laugh I miss your tender embrace I miss your smiling zinced up face I miss your passionate spirit I miss the way we did it I miss those happy happy days I miss your sweet and funny ways I miss the way I could never be bad ...but I know you would not want us to be sad “Sometimes in the night when sleep eludes my restless mind and the dark is filled with nameless fears - I chase away those fearful imges with thoughts of us running free across the sunlit sand and tumbling headlong into a clear turquoise sea – I thank you for the memories – I thank ou for my sanity Tonight the lights along the bay are bravely trying to shine through the autumn dusk – I cannot tell if it is the rain beating against the glass which blurs the view, or my own tears for the end of our beautiful summer and the frightening thought of learning to live without you….” Nan Witcomb
hey crew hope all is well miss you emu.
Denis was a class mate at Miami High and in my eyes a legend "always helping those less fortunate and wanting to make a difference. You are truly missed. take care mate
I sleep ...and you are there.....in my dreams....smiling and happy...you are always there......leading me forward....I am trying to make the best of my life...with you as my guide!......love u Den xox
Hey Denis, I keep expecting you to ring me with a new idea regarding our Traffic Offenders Program, certainly miss you. Program is doing really well and we have 70-80 every night now, I know you would be proud of that. I miss our meetings and laughs and you stressing me out with everything that we need to get done!! Everytime I pull up outside Coolangatta Court House Amy says to me "Mummy are we seeing your friend Denis", what an impact you had on a little 2 year old as well. Always in my thoughts, your nicknames "Hey La" "Squeaky Wheel" will always stick with me. Rest In Peace my friend.
Hey Denis out riding past Peregian hang , sun out , beautiful day, quiet smile for you, rest easy chow
Hey denis, we miss you i(aurora)heard so much about you from my mum.she knew you and me im edie,you were such a great uncle figure. we love you edie says: say hello to my dad for me denis love lots xxx
hope all are well im still behavin take it easy.
Hey Denis.. well we just had our first Dinner with the Mums on April 24 at the excellent Celsius @ Burleigh. Betty B, Louise, myself, your bro Mark and your sweet mother Joyce . There was a chair there for you and really felt you were there having a light beer and your fish of the day dinner! Sue looked after us all beautifully. And so we go on, it's not quite right that you're not there with us but you continue to make us smile and warm our hearts and make us all appreciate Life and Love.x
hey Karl, thanks for posting the photos on the website that louise dropped off they are amazing,miss you denny xxxx
hey denis miss you heaps, have been getting a few waves for you this last week or so, f..k i miss your smiling face in the lineup, i have been trying to get everyone to be a bit happier in the water at burleigh, its more fun surfing when your smiling, he who dies with the biggest smile wins, i know denis was a winner he had the biggest smile of all.
So sorry to hear what happened ......I will never forget those great years at Miami High and knowing you. Missed by all.
Missing You xoxox
I have never met a person that has done so much, for so many, wanting nothing in return. What a wonderful example of a human being you are my friend, miss you heaps mate. love ya "H"
FA DENIS! Ha ha, there are a lot of things that put a wide smile on my face when I think of you - things like your tofu kebabs, green wax and cheeky grin! Then there are the things I think of that warm my heart - your zest for each day, your kindness and charitable nature. Thanks heaps for those duck diving tips (forever a work in progress), the island gifts, and your encouraging words. I miss our easy conversations over a Cascade Light, the coast wide search for waves only to end up back at Burleigh having a laugh in one foot onshore puss. And I just miss ya mate. Bless you for sharing your generous spirit with us all. Go well and with love my friend. FA KERI!!
an uncle like no other i'll miss youu soo soo much xxshelby
Dwayne...I heard you speak at Den's send off.....just wanna say, I loved what you said that day! soooo proud of you that you've kept your word, Den would be too xxxxx
hey denis i still haven't got angry in the water you have changed me
Hey Denis,When I think of the following things they make me smile...Having a dance with you..Watching you dance with others..playing tennis with you...Having one of your fun dinner parties...looking at photos of you..Your big beautiful smile...Miss you every day
How does one begin to express your thoughts on the tragic loss of Denis? His zest for life and child like spirit was infectious and you could always be assured of a good laugh when you were with him. My life is richer for being a friend of Denis for over 36 years with many wonderful memories. The magic of Denis was his ability to not only enjoy life but make life enjoyable for others. His passion and determination and humility made him a great Gold Coast legend. Sure he never won a championship (although he was a great footballer) but on the field of humanity he was one of Gold Coast's best. I do not have to repeat Denis' achievements and his efforts to make a difference that - has already been written. I would simply write that to be a true Australian character and Gold Coaster you must follow your heart, step out of your comfort zone and put others before yourself. Denis didn't strive for money, newspaper headlines or power. He always focused on a cause, made it happen and moved on. He worshiped his family and always spoke of their various achievement with great pride and affection. I feel for their loss more than anything as well as his second family the Bartholomews Our challenge is to keep his spirit alive by continuing with his charity work ,love for the environment and inspiring our youth. Denis can now look down on all of us and should feel proud of the role model, inspiration and legacies he has created. Well Done mate. Geoff Smith
As a study abroad student, one semester at Bond, 2 classes with Denis as my teacher, he truly was an inspiration for me. I now have my dream job and I really don't think that would've happened without his guidance and for that I am truly grateful. He had an infectious personality, genuine heart and an inspiring passion for life
Hey Denis , Big day today , birthday and anniversary , miss u a bunch . surf crap but good anyway Mick
I love you Uncle Denis x x x
I was Judy McKenzie, Bill Callinan's secretary back in the sixties and seventies. I went to school with Denis and he used to come to my house when we had dancing parties. I was shocked to hear the news. My Dad and his wife who still live on the Gold Coast sent me the clippings from the papers. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Denis was my cousin & like a furnishing or fixture, I guessed he'd pretty much always be lurking somewhere in the background of my life. When he died he came into focus. I suspect he did for many others. Few knew all of the story & though each chapter and page which unfolded after his death was crammed with compassion, energy and humour & his trademark tool. The Denis of my early years was a passionate young man, enlivened with an infectious energy, exuding laughter and determination. Just as photographs consign us in time and place, much of my lasting memory of Denis is of that cool young surfer pumping through life. That he included me in his life where others may have left me behind, as Robert Frost so duly noted he made all the difference. Like a guide, he helped his brother, Mark and I navigate the intricate waters of our teenage years and beyond. I often look back to this site and think how much love surrounds this one man. Such inspiration, such meaning. If each of us tries a little harder, cares a little more, takes a little less, that will be a tangible testament to a life truly lived. God bless sweetheart....
Sometimes I feel youre not far away as the white dove cicles my caf and sits and watches from the Mango tree as if looking around for me. The dolphins surround Rabbit and swim beide him as if they are tring to guide him. The dandelion circles the funeral and then floats away. why why why couldnt you stay. we would be in Samoa today. We had so much fun the taste of you is still on my tongue i took the best of what you had to give. i will make the most of what you left me with. i miss you...I love you, give me hope... help me cope in this world without you. You live on in the hearts of everyone that loved you. Happy Valentines Day. Fly on my Sweet Angel.
Denis,I miss seeing your friendly smiling face from your verandah and you running enthusiastically down the street in your wettie. Although I only knew you briefly compared to most I do think I met you for a reason. You have showed me that life is so valuable and we should appreciate every minute, every person and everything we experience. You fit so many selfless acts into your amzing life, your an inspiration. I have listened to so many stories of your caring nature and was moved by the amount of people you have touched. Thanks for dropping by (even though I was out) and checking on how I was after I payed my dues and cut up all my feet on the rocks on the point. It was nice of you to check up on me. Thanks for the surfs and smiles Denis x x A true inspiration
What a absolute privilege to have known Denis. A very caring, generous person. People come into our lives, some are remembered, Denis is certainly one that will never be forgotten.
hey denis the menace! I now regret so much for not cacthing up for a coffee at The Bluff. That's what happens when two busy bees try to meet. This was my last moments with Denis. During that time, when we were trying to catch up for a coffee, I was parking my car at the Miami shops and thought to myself, I wonder if I will see Denis at the post office. We used to share his pobox for few years and on and off I would bump into him. I went in and out but no sign of Denis. I forgot about it. I crossed the road to go to video shop and BANG..Denis opens the door as I try to get in.I nearly jumped. We had a quick chat full of jokes and laughs, especially about how long we were trying to catch up for a coffee.We left under the same terms to continue to try to meet up.And that was the last time I saw and talked to Denis...I love you denis and I miss you so much my friend. You were my family in Australia. The one who I could trust with anything and everything. Denis made me feel home in Australia. He was always so proud to introduce me to everyone as: hey this is Steph, she is 5 times World Bodyboard Champ! Even though I am just 4 times, didn't matter how many times I corrected Denis he still would say 5 times.I got to a point that I just smile say Hello and laughed with myself inside.He always wanted to make me feel special because he knew how much I went through trying to survive as a professional bodyboarder in a land of stand up surfers. He helped me with everything he could and couldn't, just because he want ed to...nothing in exchange.I hope you rest in peace Denis, I will miss your heart of Gold...
just remember he who dies with the biggest smile wins,i miss you heaps denis. love, the harris family
hey guys i still havent got angry in the water,denis has inspired me to be peaceful in the water.long live the emu, love you denis. dwayne.
"Great men are not Born...Great men are those who through circumstance meet and overcome great challenges" - you raised the bar for us all Mate. Wish you were here. John N.
i MISS YOU uNCLE dEN I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HOW THIS ALL HAPPENED...I JUST WANNA SAY THAT I LOVE YOU AND THANKS FOR EVERYTHING YOU EVER DID FOR ME.... I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU I PROMISE X X X
Denis so glad you came to our 50th reunion. AND THAT WE ALL GOT TOGETHER every year after that. Now we will have to wait until we join you, we love you and miss you always, from sandy burleigh primary and miami high..
It was a great honour to be your mate. You put the smile in Burleigh and the peace on the Point. See you down the line...
It is with the deepest respect and sympathy to Mrs Callinan, Mark, Lois , Anne, the Callinan/Regbetz and Bartholomew families that I relay these private thoughts and experience. It has not been easy to get out and hope that it adds to Deniss story in some way. It was the lucky side of fate that brought Denis into my life. It was initially through inter-club surfing and then S.A.N.D. and the sand team. Denis came to live with my family as a part of our Noosa household for 6 months or so back in the late 80s and then on and off over the ensuing 5 or 6 years as he did his sunny coast locums. My parents and sister adored him for his charm and way. He would bring flowers and chocolates on each trip, a true gentleman. Like others have mentioned, he also left little Denis things in their home that they hold dear. It cemented a lifelong friendship that ended with Denis giving me a gift I carry and treasure each waking day. Denis has been coming to the sunny coast 3 or 4 times a year for a long time now. Of late, I think he found some solace at a little place in Peregian beach, he just loved. It could well have been his time out place. Without fail a telephone call would come out of the blue and plans made for a surf and catch up dinner. Usually worked around either a law conference or his personal commitments that I know he loved.Denis was always in the water at sparrows and sooo excited even when the waves were 2 ft dribble, any surf with Denis was always a refresher on the surf stoke. During one of our dinners Id mentioned I had a business trip to Honolulu, the dates just happened to coincide with Deniss annual trip to the north shore. That was it we had to meet and have surf. It was a busy trip we phone tagged and he insisted I come up; we caught up for all of 4 hours daylight time and managed 2 surfs. I was lucky enough to catch a glimpse of how he loved Hawaii and why the people there loved Denis in return. Denis treated the place and people with a profound respect. It was during this trip Denis got me back into the water and stoked on surfing again. As a result theres been more water time lately than I can remember for years. He never stopped giving; at times he didnt even know he was giving.The dinners we had in the early days were always feisty debates on life, our loves, politics and religion. I think as the years have gone by we just tended to prattle for hours on end about stuff . It was always easy.On Deniss recent trip up to Noosa in November just prior to his birthday, we decided to head to Double Island for the day. Deb packed the boys lunch , sangas , thermos and all the goodys . 2-3 ft dead clean and crystal clear water, one of those small classic DI days we hung surfed, ate, chatted, surfed and surfed. I reckon Denbo was just about to turn to jello before I had to drag him out of the water tide was on the way back in. Denis was very happy that day, things in his personal life seemed to be going in a direction he had always wanted but had put second to all the other wonderful and meaningful pursuits that everyone has been acknowledging. He had a plan for the challenges ahead of him and had started to simplify life around him. In the process I think he centred me again as he always did. Leaning against the gate we said our goodbyes and Denis about to jump into his car, turned and with that big smile beamed. Mike, were good mates hey I nodded and beamed back you bet . This is the gift a moment I have been carrying since that day. It was and is precious in a sense I cant describe. I urge anyone who has the chance to say these or similar words to friends and mates to do so, it might not be the blokiest thing to say, but it makes a difference. Say Denis made me do it he wouldnt mind. He gave to me his friendship and in the process a sense of ease that has wiped my own fear of passing. As Mark, Rab and many of the speakers noted, the last week was a worthy celebration for a great man. A celebration for someone I admired, thought the world of, and will miss beyond description. I think its fair to say the 16th Jan will always be Denis day a celebration for a man who did so much with humility and a way, a Denis way. Denis you are a one and only. Mark you are a rock, Rab thanks for putting it so eloquently . I wear my I love Denis badge with pride.
What a great big huge hole has been created through the loss of Denis!!!!!!! One of the best displays of selflessness i have ever witnessed, may we all take a page out of his book!!!Trean Hallas
Denis..........When is the time right to express our feelings on this?............What words can ever explain the feeling of total shock, confusion, annoyance and loss when a special, dearly loved one as yourself moves on.No words........we just have to adjust.Only recently I was thinking about you - true!When I heard about "your move" I couldn't believe it. I so wanted to be at Miami to say goodbye, however I imagined you saying "It's ok - don't stress" as I had work to do......... I actually saw your face saying with your cheeky grin "It's ok".Later, on Friday I was at Burleigh with my adorable 9 year old son Jackson (who you would love Denis), Karen and Paul and sooooo many others to say our "farewell" to you Denis. That meant a lot to us and I explained why to Jackson, who did understand.I so wish we had caught up for old times sake - Catch you later - Keep up your good work!Cheers!Big hug, lots of fun memories and love,Andree
The lovely dinners over the years were full of fun and laughter and great conversation. I will miss you big time dear friend .. I read you in this famous poem by Ralph Waldo Emerson ..To laugh often and much,to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children,to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends,to appreciate beauty,to find the best in others,to leave the world a bit better,whether by a healthy child,a garden patch or a redeemed social condition,to know even one life has breathed easier because you lived..This is to have succeeded.Always in my heart Denis Dear.x
You are probably the kindness person anyone could meet. When my sister
To A True Friend a Poem I wrote called FUN WITH DENIS
Fun with Denis so easily done,
The character of joy to all he was,
Laughing, Debating, Perfecting, all the good things in life,
that was fun with Denis, so easily done.
Why our loved one, taken so early,
His life full on was Denis far gone,
Up in the heavens we feel you there,
Your Love for people, you were always there,
With comforting thoughts an angel of joy,
Thats fun with Denis in heaven above,
Unforgettable, so deep within,
the memories of Denis will never be done,
The legend of Denis will always live on,
In the hearts of all so deep with in,
Love forever that is true,
The Love from Denis thats in us too,
Fun with Denis, to keep on hold,
Till Heaven above....
We'll see you there
from your buddy
You gave so much. You are the most selfless and generous man I have ever known. An inspiration and a rare gem!
dear denny. it's cinderella as you always called me i'm going to miss you so much but you know how much i adore and luv u as a brother and a bestie, heidi and i always called you saint denis of assisi (saint.francis of assisi year 1226 lover of creation, champion of justice, patron saint of animals and lost causes) that's you. Hey denny second star to the right,and straight on till morning will love you forever xxxxxxxxxxxx
Its about 24 years since I last saw denis. Thanks for making me feel worth your time. wont forget you
I have posted a video of the Memorial Service on youtube. You can access it here: http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=akJUmiUIi7o
I'd just like to thank the people responsible for this site. I remember surfing early morning's out the front of Arthur St, Mermaid with Denis and working on The Don memorial. Denis introduced me to a warm and compassionate side of the Gold Coast. Denis knew that surfers united are a powerful force for positive change. I taught Denis computer skills...He taught me so much more...RIP mate. Keith
I always new Denis was someone special and after listening to all the tributes and compassionate stories about him and knowing through personal experience of his infinite altruism. I now realize that Denis was the heart of the surfing community not just here in Burleigh Heads and the Gold Coast but around the World. He was the living entity of 'pure stoke' the surfing saint. Thanks for the greatest inspiration to improve on all levels Denis. I love you, miss you and know I will be seeing you one day on the other side.
ps.... Love you Denis Callinan, Lisa Ava
Hey Denis, miss you already! Thank you for your tender humanness you showed us all. The magic of your words and actions often empowered myself and my daughters. You were always available for everyone. You introduced us to Zero drivers after nites out while you sat quietly conversing with the drivers with sis and I laughing and screaming in the back seat as only sisters know how. You were sooooooo patient with us. You gave a lot of love and encouragement to everyone you encountered. Will miss your passion
I meet Denis over 40 years ago when the Callinan family lived in Mackay in North Queensland, we were their neighbours. His father Bill was then deputy head at Mackay High. My father Paul and Bill became great friends. Denis was know amongst the mothers of the neighbourhood as Denis the menance particularly around cracker night when he would blow up ever letter box, peg bin and toad in sight. His mother would have to apoligise to all while I am sure Bill was on the back deck pissing himself laughing. We use to visit them when they moved to Childers , Brisbane and finally to the coast in the house across the road from Miami High. Denis tried to teach a flat water mackay boy how to surf but was pushing s--- up hill. The families drifted apart over the years and from reading of denis I am sorry I missed the last thirty years. Tryly and unforgetably chap
A big thank you to Denis, he has been there through thick and thin over the last forty years, His first main fundraiser was for Diller back in 76 at the Patch at Cooly where he raise money for Michael and 25 years later was with Michael once again when he passed away two years ago nearly to the day of Denis passing, They can now surf once again at their Burleigh Point,You could write a book on what Denis did to help our family Thanks Den
Your friendliness and kindness will be missed in the line up and I will miss your smile and "comment ca va" greeting. A la prochaine fois Denis.
Mate, it is no wonder that so many people have so many lovely things to say. You tought me so much, introduced me to so many people and I still have trouble beleiving you are gone forever.Most important, you taught me the importance of compassion and taking time to understand your fellow man. You were my president, my teacher, my solicitor and most of all, my mate. I was very lucky to work with you and more lucky to catch up with you on the new year swell where we paddled out together, surfed together and sat on the beach together, reminiscing just days before you left us. I will never ever forget you my mate, buddy and true friend.
i knew Denis for many years, he looked after my divorce, my Will, my unit purchases, my surfing, he cared and showed great friendship and love to me and any of my friends and family. i am so sadded by his loss, i am having touble accepting this situation. We laughed so much about life we were similar ages and wanted similar things, love, family, surf and great friends. I am crying as i write this, i only heard the news late last night, much love susan carmody
Reality just slapped me in the face. This is another example of how Denis was in some way in this celestial void sent here to teach us about life and the right way to live it. In this last week I have thought about mortality, living life by making a contribution and remembering the special people along the way that helped shape and influence my life before it is too late to show or tell them.Thanks Denis.
den you were da man...you are the person who i look up to now and i am sure everyone else does!!! I am glad i was lucky enough to have the privlidge to know you, as a great family friend and my gaurdian angel. I am really going to miss you xxoo =]
lost a founding member andy mac rabbit and me we will miss your smile and antics safe trip till we meet again butch
You held my hand and guided me for my first surf at Burleigh Point. It was with a broken heart that I held yours and guided you for that last surf at Burleigh as your ashes hit the waves.The tears keep coming and its hard to fight the current, I miss your smile, your voice, your advice and those long conversations. I have had you all my life and now it seems like seconds. I see your face in all sorts of places and know that I must be the luckist person of all to hve called you my brother. You are my hero, all my love Deno xxx.
Denis has been a good friend since 1970-71 when he first came to Miami High and our families social. Our love goes out to Bill (who we never forget) Joyce, Mark and Anne and their families. Denis came to my 15th and 50th Birthday parties (a long and true friend) as well as many of our family gatherings with his Denis Smile and Vibes. He will be missed by us all. As my brother Steve has always said of Denis, "You could not meet a nicer Bloke". We love you Denis. XXXXXXXX The Hages.
We form an impressive circle like long white pointed teeth radiant in the sun
Hundreds are here in Denis' memory to sow his ashes in the green waves
Under Jebreen's outstretched fingers the long volcanic rocks of the Point
Show the shadowy way seawards where we are all at home
The last straggle of surfers drifts towards the rocky beach
We do not speak but seek out the offered hands of silent warmth
As our minds are numbed - not by the temperature of the water
But by the sheer scale of our loss - cajoling us onwards to our lives
Beyond the white strip of sand in the distance
We sit in cafes subdued by memories of Denis - words don't come easily
As we wait for time to make sense of the void before us
Then someone relates something about Denis years ago
As we smile a seagull dives and rays of morning sun filter through
And make the light clear and more radiant than before
I HAVE KNOWN DENIS FOR 45 YEARS.WHAT A SAD AND BIG LOSS TO OUR COMMUNITY. HIS GENTLE AND COMPASSIONATE NATURE HAD WON MANY HEARTS. HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY.
To know you was an honour and one of lifes privileges. You always had a minute no matter how good the surf was and how keen you were to get out there and we had a good party or two over the past 30 years. You will be sadly missed by so many.
First met Denis at school in the 70s. His dreams and ideas were big back then.Great loss for so many people.A great honor to have known ya. REST IN PEACE.
Denis, you did so much good...... And in persuading so many of us to help you do it, you made us better people too. From Miami in the 70s, all the way through three decades your enthusiasm for life, the ocean and community set the standard for us all..... I will always remember the last time we surfed together at Caba - your grin, all the plots and plans you had on the boil. You were one of our best. Keep paddling past the horizon mate.
What a life! You were so passionate and caring about everything
You were an inspiration to all who met you. A classic and unique individual. I will miss our little chats surfing the point. But most of all I will miss you and that big grin.
I first met denis around 1974 when i was involved with the Broadbeach Boardriders Club. Denis ran a small club up the road, Miami Boardriders. His main aim at that time was to beat us in a competition. He never did as it was a very young and inexperienced crew but he stood out by his outstanding sportsmanship and good nature.He was way ahead of the rest of us in his foresight of what galvanising the surfing community could accomplish.A great loss. Rowland Brennan
My deepest sympathy to the Callinan and Regbetz families. What a tragic loss. I first met Denis when I was a 16yr old girl surfing with my boyfriend at Nobbys and Miami beaches. He was so friendly and easygoing but such an inspiration in so many ways. It is so true what they say "Only the good die young".He will be fondly remembered by many and missed by so many.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at the sad time.
We met at school all those years ago and your dear dad was principle. You and your ideals never changed over the years. Working with you and your orginal SAND concept was an honour and a privilage. To see where that would lead is amazing. So proud to have met and known you. You will be sadly missed by so many. Fond goodbyes....
The Earth cherishes those who cherish the Earth.
Well what can i say..Denis it was a honour to know u and call you my mate.. U will never be forgotton and i will be catching plenty of waves for you bra.. Im sure u will be along for the ride.. See u on the flip side mate..ALOHA
i didnt know you ! But a job well done ! good on you denis callinan !
My Denis ... You were my Mr Magoo but most of all you were my knight in shining armour ..not sure how life will go on for me without you in it. The greatest gift was that you were in it.. Aloha Denny x x x
To all the family:I had been out of touch for some time, but saw Ann at Wadeye just before Christmas and she spoke glowingly of Denis who was still riding the waves and enjoying the law. I was down at Monterey on the weekend, with many memories of what it is to be back on the other side of the Pacific at this time of year. May his smile, his generosity, his openness, and his unalloyed joy in nature sustain you all at this time of his riding out of sight. With prayers and best wishes, confident there will always be another swell no matter what the burdens of the day. I only saw him once or twice in the last 30 years but his unmistakable smile is still with me, and I recognised it immediately in the photos on the funeral brochure. May he rest in peace. Amen.
You wil be missed by all.Aloha Denis
Reflection of "The Surfing Saint" Creases and crevices merge and mesh into a smile as large as laughter and life itself. Eyes with compassion and purpose so just.Companion of life and ocean, this life you visit is complete. Natures soul mate, The perfect wave calls her surfing saint to meet.By Rene 24/1/08
Only now that he is gone do I realise how much of an influence Denis had on me in my teenage years and how many other people he has touched. He was a father figure of surfing life and human decency .. we will miss you
I will never forget your fabulous smile - from school thru the years, whenever we ran into each other, the Smile reflected who you are. And the compassion when both my parents passed was much appreciated. We were all fortunate to know you.....Lou
Wow! what an amazing send off yesterday was...it truly showed how many people Denis touched in his short life. We are all a little richer for knowing Denis Callinan his impact has lasting qualities for us all. Aloha Den.....
watch us from the otherside my man,but we will swim together again, one day.
Denis gave our corner of the world a conscience. A gift so big that he will always be with us. Love Love You
You are a true inspiration Den... my heart will always smile with thoughts of you :) Thank you for all the beautiful memories... we love you!!! xoxo
to my darling Denis big LOVE to you forever!












